Bye2 2012 and hello 2013

Assalammualaikum..

Today is the end of 2012. Good bye 2012 and hello 2013..Just let the past,just be the past. Just focus on next episode..

So many thing happen on 2012 that i can't forget abt..so on 2013 i wish it cud be more lucky for me..new beginning, new hope, new drama n new mission..

What i wish i cud develop myself to be a better person as a wife for my hubby,a momma for Damia,a daughter for my beloved parents n also be a better muslimah..i also wish can get better job soon..

May Allah bless me n family and hope everything going smooth till the end..aminnnn..

Welcome to the world "Damia Arissa"

Assalammualaikum..

Alhamdulillah syukur ke hadrat ilahi dengan limpah kurnia-Nya aku telah selamat melahirkan seorg baby girl yg sangat comel on 21December2012,Friday at 3.30pm with 3x push at PPUM..fuhhhhh lega!

Nak berstory mory pasal delivery ni mmg xkan habis..but i want put in my log how i feel..

On 4.30am, at rumah mak kat nilai air ketuban pecah..then rush to PPUM..frm nilai to PPUM is abt 1hr ++..smpai hospital at 5.30am but masa tu blom ada cntraction lg..strt cntraction bila masuk labour room..pergggghhh rasa skt nya mmg TERBAIK!11hours menahan sakit..ya allah masa tu hanya Allah saja yg tau perasaan aku..rasa sgt xsabar nk meneran coz xthn nak menanggung skt cntraction tu..syukur alhamdulillah hnya 3x push aku selamat melahirkan baby yg sgt comel..masa tu hilang dh rasa segala sakit n bertukar menjadi happy yg teramat sgt lagi2 bila nurse bg peluk baby..ya allah sgt xpercaya aku dh menjadi momma dh masa tu..

This is my beautiful princess, Damia Arissa binti Madzhar Abduh..

Welcome to the world syg..thx for give me a chance to be ur momma..momma n papa will do our best to teach n take care of you..Please be a good daughter n make us proud with u ya syg! May Allah bless our family..aminnnnn

My 1st Anniversary

Assalammualaikum..

Dear hubby,
A year ago on 9th December 2011 we officially became husband & wife. At tht time i was on 24 & u 22, even i'm older than u 2years but we're madly in love & u look more matured than me.

 

Now, on 9th December 2012 is our 1st anniversary..no word can't describe how i feel. I want u to know that I love u more than i ever dreamed.

You are my enemy, my partner, my lover, my bestfriend, my soulmate, a daddy-to-be and the most important is u r mine for the rest of my life.

I'm proud to be ur wife, u always support me, be a listener, be a coach. U would do anything for me and put up with me while i was pregnant for nine months(waiting for delivery). i'm enjoy the moment when we are together, talking with each other, arguing, laughing and joking together. I can't imagine how my life without you.

I felt shameful regarding my everyday irritating behavior with u but still u can be so nice and kind hearted person ever met..I also want to say thank you for making my dreams come true to be a wife and also a mummy-to-be.

I know this is just beginning and is far from the perfect one but honestly i believe it will getting better n better with each passing day especially when we hv a baby. I wish this coming "Funam Jr" will make our life more bright, happy and complete each other. Thank you for loving me the way that u do.

Thank you to Allah for all His grace-Alhamdulillah.
Happy first anniversary of our marriage sayang!

From ur love :)

Farewell Digital team

Assalammualaikum

Last Tuesday my team did pot luck for Seila&Sharini Farewell..it's actually not for them buy for the whole team.

Why i said like dat?this is bcoz most of us will b leaving the team soon including me..ramlah,wan n also syafiq will follow soon..why?haha..

The reason is we hate our new boss..his not like a boss his more like a monkey in the jungle..stupid!

Check up 37weeks ++

Assalammualaikum..

Tadi aku ade check up kat hospital PPUM memandangkan planning nk bersalin dkt sana..

Before tu,last week hari jumaat 30hb aku check up n doc suruh aku buat sugar test monitor selama 2hari..bermula puasa dari mlm, 2j aftr breakfast, 2j after lunch, n 2j aftr dinner..sbb aku ada gen diabetis..average gula mesti la within 3-6.4

Nak dijadikan cerita,aku punya result mnunjukkan reading yg xbrapa nak cun..average 5-7..doc xpuas ht n suruh aku monitor lg if not aku kene insulin..wth?tau x insulin tu sgt xelok..arggghhhh..ni msti sbb pemakanan aku masa hari tu..mana x nye mkn durian la,cake choc la,air honey lemon la..tu smua manis..

So,esok aku kene monitor lg sugar reading but kali ni doc nk aku buat 7x sehari dari b4 breakfast,2j aftr breakfast,b4 lunch,2j aftr lunch n smpai la ke dinner..fuhhh gila aku kene jaga mkn btol2 skng..no choc at all,no milo+susu manis,no durian2 n apa2 mknn yg manis..since dh nk bersalin ni..tkt juga aku kalau btol2 ngidap diabetis ni..minta dijauhkan..huhu

The days is coming #36Weeks

Assalammualaikum,
My due date is getting closer.
Hari ni sudah msuk 36weeks/9months. 4 weeks until my due date.

Counting the days..tik tok tik tok..
Sgt excited nak lahirkan baby dalam tummy ni..
Makin nak dekat ni makin berdebar2 menunggu kelahirannya..
Expected due date is on 22nd Dec 2012 but can be early maybe..hehe

Tadi dapat news, isteri sepupu hubby telah selamat melahirkan baby girl..ouchhh so cute n jeles..
buat aku rasa xsabar dan sangat xsabar utk melalui hari kelahiran tu..hehe(skema pulak ayat makcik)

Braxton-Hicks or false contraction, smlm aku rasa tiba2 perut mngeras and sakit pinggang bkn main lg. Dah la malam2, hubby pulak xde..aduyai..nangis je la..pastu sapu minyak panas kat pinggang, and kaki baru kurang sikit..
Tadi dok la google2 pasal tanda2 nak bersalin and jumpa la sikit maklumat pasal Braxton-Hicks ni.. So far yg aku baca and sakit mcm yg aku rasa semalam tu lebih kpd Braxton-Hicks/ false contraction and it's normal bila dah masuk fasa2 hujung2 ni kata nya..Ni sikit info pasal Braxton-Hicks

What can I do if my Braxton Hicks contractions are making me uncomfortable?

If you're within a few weeks of your due date, try these measures:

- Change your activity or position. Sometimes walking provides relief. At other times, resting eases contractions. (True labor contractions, on the other hand, will persist and progress regardless of what you do.)- Take a warm bath to help your body relax.

- Try drinking a couple of glasses of water, since these contractions can sometimes be brought on by dehydration.

- Try relaxation exercises or slow, deep breathing. This won't stop the Braxton Hicks contractions, but it may help you cope with the discomfort. (Use this opportunity to practice some of the pain-management strategies you've learned in your childbirth preparation class.)

When should I call my doctor or midwife?

- Call your caregiver right away if you haven't reached 37 weeks and your contractions are becoming more frequent, rhythmic, or painful, or if you have any of these possible signs of preterm labor:

- Abdominal pain, menstrual-like cramping, or more than four contractions in one hour (even if they don't hurt)

- Any vaginal bleeding or spotting

- An increase in vaginal discharge or a change in the type of discharge — if it becomes watery, mucusy, or bloody (even if it's only pink or blood-tinged)

- More pressure in the pelvic area (a feeling that your baby's pushing down)

- Low back pain, especially if it's dull or rhythmic, or you didn't previously have back pain

- If you're past 37 weeks, there's no need to call your doctor or midwife just for contractions until they last about 60 seconds each and are five minutes apart and continue like this for an hour — unless your caregiver has advised you otherwise.

See my 36weeks baby bump..besar kan! ehehehe sure baby sihat in there :)

Admitted & birthday story

Assalammualaikum..

Today i would like to story morry abt my first experience admitted at hospital..haishhhh what a worse day!i hate hospital..i hate the smelling of medicine..xsuka xsuka!!

Last week,19th Sept 2012 i was admitted at Tropicana Medical Centre bcoz of vomitting n dehydrated..actually aku strt muntah2,demam n diarrhoea since Saturday,14th Sept 2012..it's a food poisoning..yes doc pun ckp benda yg sama n ia xde kaitan dgn pregnancy..aku suspect the food poisoning is from NAsi lemak yg aku mkn ms breakfast coz lepas mkn je trus aku muntah2 and the war just begin..toilet is my 2nd room..hehe..

U knw wut, mlm b4 admitted aku p hospital sg buloh but wut a worse thing is aftr 3hours tunggu number aku xnaik2..org dh critical dh time tu weyh menggigil xhengat,kaki ni lembik dh xle nk diri n ckp kt nurse tu leh lak dia kt sbr tunggu giliran..last2 hubby bwk blk dulu n esok pg2 trus p klinik panel tuk dptkan referel letter..trus hubby bwk p tropicana..30min je tunggu trus admit..mkcik dh xlw berjalan dh ms tu..kene pkai wheelchair lg..perghhhh pengalaman skt yg xdpt aku lupakan..

Masa masuk emmergency kt TMC yg kt wheelchair tu after 2botol air dia msuk baru leh senyum..hehe

Kebetulan pas admit esoknya birthday aku 20hb..sedey celebrate kt spital weyh..xde candle light dinner ke apa ke kan..it's like karma..aritu hubby pun clebrate bsday kt spital yg sama..haha

I wishhh..yeahhh i wishh to be a good mama, wife and daughter..next wish is RAHSIA...hehe

MIL prepare for the foods and cake..

TQ hubby for the special celebration..it's like karma..both of us had celebrate birthday at the same hospital..ekekekekeke

Ni kesan nurse salah amik darah..bengkak jd nye..disebabkan ni femes makcik satu spital tau coz hubby p complaint kt ketua nurse..hehehehe

Hubby admitted

Assalammualaikum,
on 28th August,hubby was admitted at Tropicana Medical Centre,Kota Damansara.He admitted bcoz of backpain and high fever..after further checking via MRI scan doc found tht his spine stray from the path and has poked his nerve. Dunno how to explain it but it's like slip disc la..and the doc has advise to do a minor surgery and the cost is RM14k++. Ya ampun mahal banget! but Alhamdulillah syukur tht my company insurans cover all the medical costs..fuhhhh lega ;)

30min after surgery done..he can smile d..hehe

He is my everything..get well soon sayang..

Then on 30th August is his birthday..23rd years old-muda lagi rite..hehe..so we had celebrate his birthday at hospital with my MIL..but i feel tht i'm not a good wife bcoz i'm not buy anything for him..after work i'm rushing to hospital..huhu "sedih" but thank god he understand my situation.. he said "is ok sayang ,as long as u be with me it's more than enough..one more thing our baby is the best present ever"..oh so touching!! Thanx hubby..i promise to buy a present for u after bonus..hehe

The foods n cupcake is provided by MIL..thx mama :)

24weeks of pregnancy

Assalammualaikum,

Today i would like to share my experience during pregnancy. This is my 1st pregnancy and Alhamdulillah during this pregnancy i did not experience any difficulties.

On 26th April,2012 - I got serious vomiting at the time and hubby had bring me to clinic. We not expect that I was pregnant at the time bcoz we are plan for pregnancy - just 4months of marriage. The doctor asked me to do urine test and I just followed the doctor requests bcoz at the time my body is extremely weak. A few minutes ago, doctor came to me n congrats me. She says i'm pregnant then suddenly hubby kiss n hug me. I was shocked and blur. Then hubby said, " sayang, u pregnant!" OMG i'm blur n still blur then when i realize on it I was so-so happy! it's a present from Allah..Alhamdulillah.. hey dude! I'M GONNA BE A MOM! :)

Doctor said i'm just 6weeks at this time with my weight 43kg

Now, i'm 24weeks of pregnancy equal to 6months and expected due date is end of December or early of January 2013. My weight now is 49kg - 6kg increased man! :) During this pregnancy I have not experienced any problems. I suffered from vomiting only a month n hv depend on vomiting killer pills. One day, my sis offer me to try pomegranate juice by Giffarine. Guess what? it's totally superb! I drink the juice 2times daily, morning before breakfast and night before sleep. I feel energetic when drink the juice n totally stop from taking any pills which is not good for my baby.  As u know, pomegranate is good for maternity and for baby skin n blood. Don't u believe?yes u have to believe it!hehe.. 

Now, in my 2nd trimester i keep constantly drink the juice, anmum milk and take obimin plus + calcium that has been given by the doctor. With this supplement can gv more energy for me n baby. :)

 

Ibu lahir anak kembar 12 dipaksa pilih 1 dan 11 yang lain akan dibunuh!

Assalammualaikum,

Since pregnant ni aku sangat la sensitif dgn isu2 penderaan, pembunuhan baby ni..Sedih bila baca and terbayangkan nasib baby2 yang xberdosa tu.

Baca title tu pun dh terbayang betapa kejamnya dunia. Berita ni aku baca kat harian Metro tadi, kat China u oll tau la yg diorg nya peraturan " 1keluarga 1anak". tapi perlu ke kalau dah terberanak kembar pastu parent tu kene pilih 1 je anak tuk dibesarkan dan yang lain akan dibunuh??errr itu sangat kejam!Comeyl2 kot baby2 tu and xbedosa..

Ni cuba korang baca and pe perasaan korang dengan isu macam ni?

Ibu lahir anak kembar 12 dipaksa pilih 1 dan 11 yang lain akan dibunuh!

Posted on the August 1st, 2012 under Luar Negara by admin

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Jinan Huang, seorang ibu yang berumur 33 tahun, melahirkan bayi kembar 12 di Shanghai pada hari isnin yang lalu. Jinan, sekarang ini dalam keadaan stabil setelah proses melahirkan selama 31 jam, diberikan peluang selama seminggu oleh kerajaan untuk memutuskan seorang bayi yang akan dipilih untuk dibesarkan.
“Saya bersama suami belum boleh memastikan pilihan,” ujar Jinan yang bercakap kepada wartawan beberapa saat setelah kelahiran yang ajaib tersebut terjadi.
“Tetapi kami telah mempertimbangkan dengan serius untuk membesarkan seorang bayi lelaki yang lahir pada urutan ke dua. Dia adalah bayi paling berat dan oleh kerana itu kami berharap bayi tersebut akan berumur panjang dan kelak boleh menjaga kami di usia tua nanti.”


“Kami pastinya tidak akan memilih bayi perempuan,” tambah suami Jinan. “Kami yakin dengan keputusan kami.” lagi sebelas baki bayi yang tidak dipilih oleh Jinan dan suaminya akan dilemparkan dari atas puncak gunung, sesuai ketetapan yang sudak termaktub dalam Undang Undang Kelahiran Kembar China. Sejak undang-undang ‘Satu Keluarga Satu Anak’ diwartakan pada tahun 1983, kerajaan China sudah membunuh lebih dari 65 juta bayi kembar di negara tersebut.
Jinan, yang mengaku bahawa sudah bertahun-tahun berusaha mendapatkan anak, dengan tegas menolak tuduhan bahawa dia mengambil pil kesuburan, sebuah amalan yang juga dijanjikan dengan hukuman mati di China. “Saya tidak mengerti kenapa ini boleh terjadi,” tambahnya. “Kepada seluruh rakyat China dan para pemimpin kami yang terhormat, saya memohon permintaan maaf atas kelahiran bayi kembar kami yang memalukan dan tidak bertanggung jawab ini.”
Sifat keperimanusiaan di China rasanya sudah lama PUPUS, kenapa kami berkata begitu? kerana sudah banyak kes, cerita mahupun berita yang kita dengar mengenai bayi dimakan, kanak-kanak didera, kanak-kanak dipukul dan kes kanak-kanak yang dilanggar, namun tiada mana-mana pihak yang mahu tampil untuk membantu!
 

Credit to Harian Metro

Niat puasa

U olls sekarang dh boleh niat ya..meh sama2  niat puasa tuk sebulan:

Esok puasa

Assalammualaikum..
Hai u olls, as u knw tomorrow is our first ramadhan..and this is my first year berpuasa with lovely hubby n also not forget my baby dlm perut ni.. :)

To my baby syg, pls don't b notty2 kt dlm tu ye..mama hope dpt laksanakan ibadah puasa dgn sebaiknya..ada doc kata on early stage ni not good tuk puasa..but mama try first..hope mama xtinggal byk la puasa thn ni..

Hmm..Boleh ke mama puasa ni?smlm mkn lewat pun prut dh masuk angin..muntah2 smpai hari ni..mkn gaviscon pun xjalan..huhu..hope prut ni sihat cepat n dpt puasa esok..

Eh malam ni dh start terawikh kan..excited la nk p terawikh mlm ni with my lovely hubby n my parents..hehe as usual 1st ramadhan will b at my parent house..love it!

So tmrw my siblings akn berkumpul at daddy's hse for iftar..happy^..lama xberkumpul dgn my sisters.. Nothing to say now..just wanna wish to all muslims "SELAMAT BERPUASA!"

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Message for hubby :)

Like like like word yg akhir tu..hehe

first post on 2012

lama tinggal dunia blog now tiba2 trasa nk menggedik nk menulis kan..

lama tinggal dunia blog since nk dkt kwin..masa tu bz ngn persiapan nak kawin katanya..mcm2..

lama tinggal dunia blog tgk2 dah dkt 7bln aku berkahwin.. ;)

lama tinggal dunia blog,tgk2 dh dekat 4bln aku pregnant..

wah banyaknya perubahan yg dh berlaku pd life aku..syukur alhamdulillah tiada apa yg mustahil dlm
hidup ni..semakin lama hidup semakin sempurna dgn ada nya hubby tercinta n our bcoming baby to complete my life..terima kasih ya allah atas apa yg kau beri kan selama ini ;)